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]]> By: Karlil http://www.personaldevelopmentpro.net/the-new-chapter-how-to-begin-anew/comment-page-1/#comment-73 Karlil Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:20:45 +0000 http://www.personaldevelopmentpro.net/?p=196#comment-73 Hi Kye. Often than i like it, i run away from the pain. I try to occupy myself so i don't think of it too much. However, as of late i have been trying to embrace the pain as it is. Reminiscing is normal. But embracing for me is still something new. But its calming to the mind knowing i don't need to run from the pain anymore and instead keep it close to myself, just like you said. Thanks for making it clear to me that this is yet another way to face reality and heal one self. I have no idea what i'm actually doing other than accepting things as it is. Hi Kye. Often than i like it, i run away from the pain. I try to occupy myself so i don’t think of it too much. However, as of late i have been trying to embrace the pain as it is. Reminiscing is normal. But embracing for me is still something new. But its calming to the mind knowing i don’t need to run from the pain anymore and instead keep it close to myself, just like you said.

Thanks for making it clear to me that this is yet another way to face reality and heal one self. I have no idea what i’m actually doing other than accepting things as it is.

]]> By: Kye http://www.personaldevelopmentpro.net/the-new-chapter-how-to-begin-anew/comment-page-1/#comment-69 Kye Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:51:07 +0000 http://www.personaldevelopmentpro.net/?p=196#comment-69 Beautiful post. I loved reading your own story. Great steps, too. Something that helps me a lot to deal with the pain of loss while embracing the new, is to stay close to the part of me that hurts with my own tenderness, while I keep on going about my life. Doing that feels a little like being a parent and letting your kid who just got hurt stay close, while you keep doing the jobs of the day. It's a powerful nonverbal message to the kid that things are really okay--life goes on and that's good! ...the pained place in yourself can get that comforting message too, if you don't cut it off. Beautiful post. I loved reading your own story. Great steps, too.

Something that helps me a lot to deal with the pain of loss while embracing the new, is to stay close to the part of me that hurts with my own tenderness, while I keep on going about my life.

Doing that feels a little like being a parent and letting your kid who just got hurt stay close, while you keep doing the jobs of the day. It’s a powerful nonverbal message to the kid that things are really okay–life goes on and that’s good!

…the pained place in yourself can get that comforting message too, if you don’t cut it off.

]]> By: karlil http://www.personaldevelopmentpro.net/the-new-chapter-how-to-begin-anew/comment-page-1/#comment-61 karlil Sun, 23 Aug 2009 19:45:57 +0000 http://www.personaldevelopmentpro.net/?p=196#comment-61 Glad you like it Marisa. Glad you like it Marisa.

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