Comments on: The 17 Conditions Of Lasting Love

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My 10 Most Favorite Happiness Quotes — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 19:56:47 +0000

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By: Karlil

Karlil — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 17:48:56 +0000

Thanks for the comment Carolyn.I’m glad you like the article.

By: Karlil

Karlil — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 17:47:49 +0000

Hi Mog. first of all, thanks for commenting. I’m sorry if the example given makes you feel this way. I do acknowledged that men have the responsibility for listening to their partner’s troubles. All I’m saying is that it should be understandable for when they can’t be there to pay attention as they have worries of their own. My intention is only to avoid having argument of this sort as it is not fair for both of them.Of course this excuse should not be used often.

By: Mogs

Mogs — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 04:05:32 +0000

I like this post, and they’re good points, particularly the one about conditional love.

I must confess that point 6 put my hackles up, though. While I agree completely about the need for space in a relationship, the example you gave is dangerous and insulting. So many of the women I know who are in a relationship find that they can’t count on the men in their lives to listen when they’re having problems. Your example seems to be telling the world that men should not be expected to, as this would not be ‘giving them space’ and that by extension men’s problems and coping methods are more important and should take precedence over women’s.

I’m sure that this is not what you meant, but the implications of your example were unfortunate.

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