Comments on: 5 Simple Body Language Mistakes To Avoid

By: Madeleine

Madeleine — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:12:01 +0000

Karlil. Good job, short and sweet!

i agree about not paying attention. As you say, “If you don’t pay attention, it will show.” that is so true, yet many people don’t seem to know that they can’t fake it. You really can tell.

In Toastmasters we learn about body langauage when we’re giving a speech. Sometimes a person will adopt the “fig leaf” position, which is standing with hands in front, apparently protecting some vital body parts. I guess it comes from fear or nervousness.

By: ayo olaniyan

ayo olaniyan — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 00:00:18 +0000

hello karlil,
i was glad reading this article and thankful that i wasnt the only one delving into body language signs. I just started a series today.
Anyway, i loved the article. I agree with number 2 . i hope it’s okay if i add to it. sometimes crossing arms could be a display of confidence. eg. there are times while stressing an important point on a subject i have a bit knowledge on, i unconsciously cross my arms lol!!!
ayo olaniyan´s last blog ..Simple Body Language Signs Exposed.

By: Belinda Munoz

Belinda Munoz — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:56:57 +0000

Ahh…I didn’t know that about leaning back. It’s something I often do when I’m sitting down as I’m petite and often can’t reach to floor so I try to lean onto the back of the chair for comfort. Will remember going forward.

Like the short format, btw.

By: Karlil

Karlil — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 23:49:03 +0000

Glad you like the article Stephen. Thanks for the comment.

By: Karlil

Karlil — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 23:48:32 +0000

I know exactly what you mean Nea. I’ve caught myself a couple of time as well. It seems like a habit for me to cross my arms when I’m in unfamiliar places. But thankfully, I stop doing it nowadays.